Revelation

For a very long time, like most of us, I was looking for happiness in the external world (communication with people, entertainment, food and even alcohol, until I gave it up definitively), but mostly I did not stop to think that if I found THE RIGHTE PERSON, the man of my life, my life would become even more happy, as if by magic.

I’ve always had and still I have everything else: perfect health, a wonderful and loving family, lovely colleagues, wonderful friends, interesting work which allows me to earn a good living, many passions (cinema, theater, sport, personal and spiritual growth, music, traveling, reading, writing my book), but I kept looking for that mutual love which was supposed to change my life. As an idealist and true romantic, I decided not to settle down with someone or not to marry someone for the wrong reasons: fear of loneliness, financial insecurity etc… After having overcome all these fears, I learned to support myself, to take care of myself and even to spoil myself.

After having lived alone for almost 7 years, I realized that I could do everything myself. I learned to be happy by myself, because I do not know how to get bored (there are so many exciting things in this world), but this happiness was not complete. Thanks to my main profession of real estate agent, I met a lot of interesting and friendly people, but I did not find THE RIGHT PERSON with whom I could build a real relationship.

I had a lot of disappointments, especially because of the dates got through the dating sites, because even if I met good people, I couldn’t projecting myself with them beyond a drink or a dinner, lack of alchemy and feeling. My last date was the last drop of water in my bowl of disappointments, but she opened my eyes and woke me up definitely. This love, which I had been looking for all this time, was all the time in me. Love for myself, unique, perhaps not perfect, but full of talents and qualities.

This revelation inspired me to create this blog, to share with you that happiness so awaited and newly found, as well as my experience, and my information in the field of personal and spiritual growth. It also motivated me to help you to find that happiness in yourself!

I would also like to share with you my personal secret for a real happiness for everyday. This is the only luxury that is truly accessible to everyone, regardless of your social status. Everyone can be happy.

It is known and I have verified it personally: our thoughts materialize and what we think and say at the present time (not I will do, or I did, but I do or I’m doing) becomes our reality. What we focus on, develops and multiplies. That's why I decided a few years ago to focus my attention on positive things and information, to carefully choose the people I see and to do everything for my own happiness.

I have taken a full responsibility for my life and everything that happens to me. I decided to learn to react positively to all circumstances. Mastering our emotions in everyday life requires constant effort, but it’s worth it, because our happiness and our future depend on it. I chose to grant myself the luxury of attending only the positive people with whom I feel good, who pull me up and make me happy.

Perhaps you will be surprised, even shocked, but I have not watched TV for almost 7 years. I just decided not to buy it. I let into my consciousness only positive music, information and films that make me feel good. I stopped watching and reading negative news, able to spoil your positive mood. I learned not to react to failures like before, even if the work is not over.

Since we are all made of energy, we can regulate and choose our mood as we do it with the radio waves. As soon as we become sad or we realize we have had a negative thought, we must replace it immediately with the positive one, think of pleasant things. If an unpleasant event happens to you, you must say at once: "Everything is well, everything goes as it should."

You have to understand, that nothing happens without reason (no encounters, no events), and if you cannot get omething (whether it be a relationship, a business / work or something material) is that it is not yet the right moment or the universe reserves something better for you.

If you feel sadness overwhelming you, immediately begin to do something you like, to change your mood, something that will do feel you good: go for a walk, do some sport, drink water, green tea or fruit juice, call a positive person, listen to energizing, positive music, sing, dance, do a little meditation, watch a good comedy or a humorous show, take care of your body, read a good book... There are so many ways to have fun, to cheer up and make you happier!

Another secret: I wake up with positive thoughts of gratitude for each new day, for my good health, for my happy, abundant, free, peaceful life, for all the people I love and who love me, for the realization of all my dreams and desires etc. Throughout the day I express gratitude for every little positive thing (smile, compliment and success, good and healthy food) and before I fall asleep, I list in my memory positive moments, successes and each small positive thing that filled my day.

The more we think about positive things, the more they multiply in our lives.

I try to do as much as I can what I really WANT and not what I MUST do: watch only positive movies, laugh more often, do things that make me happy, communicate with people who love me and believe in me, accept myself as I am. Gratitude for every little happiness, choosing positive thoughts and reactions, whatever happens (even if it is not always easy), make my daily life happier and full of harmony.

I hope you too will catch this positive wave and change your life for the better!

With love,

Your Tatiana (Sunshine)

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